(August 23rd to September 22nd)
Good luck figuring out if a Virgo is into you or not. Actually, if you do figure it out can you please let us all know? A Virgo takes their time with romantic relationships so they will play it cool and practical until they’re sure of their own feelings for you. Even though they’re difficult to figure out, if your Virgo crush isn’t buying you small gifts or trinkets that remind them of you, they’re probably not thinking about you as anything other than a person in their lives.
(September 23rd to October 22nd)
The…
You’re probably already scrolling throw your contact list as you read this, wondering if maybe this time things are going to be different. Maybe this time your ex is going to magically be someone that doesn’t disappoint you and this time it’s going to work out.
Why are you continuously knocking on a door that you both know you should be kept closed just for a momentary relapse back into who you both used to be?
Sure, you’ve probably been drinking, out with your friends when that song started playing that transported you back to a time when you were…
There’s a moment when it’s over where you just stand in the aftershocks of a broken relationship. You can ricochet from the first initial blast, but the rippling waves of pain that continue to flow through you will bring you to your knees.
The problem with the aftershocks is it usually doesn’t happen immediately after a breakup. It’s going to happen when you’re driving, and that song comes on the radio that takes you back to the first time you danced together. It’s going to come when you have something big to share, and you can’t call them. …
Inspiration is something that can come in a variety of different ways. Sometimes it’s a playlist. Sometimes some other writer’s article. Sometimes it’s even the weather.
But for me, it was you who made me feel inspired again.
My heart may have been frozen solid for the last few years, but you reminded me that there was a reason that even when we think we can’t, we can find a spark again. That spark led me to being ignited from head to toe with a buzzing feeling that I had been missing.
While I’d love to talk about all of…
Is there ever a point in our lives where we should give up on love? Where we should throw in the towel and just be content with not finding another person to let into our hearts? I don’t think so. I don’t think that we should ever look at life and think that love will never find us.
Does what we drive or what we wear or what we do really matter at the end of the day? Why do we set impossibly high standards on what we’re looking for in another person? High standards are great but if it’s…
I’m scared. I’ve never said those words before to someone like you. I’ve never had those words said to me by someone like you either.
Sure, I’ve said I’ve loved people before but it’s not like this. I didn’t say those three words while staring into someone’s eyes while our fingers are intertwined. I haven’t said those words so slow and deliberate that the receiver feels every ounce of the weight I mean them in the depths of their soul. …
If you’re looking for someone to completely love every piece of your being. If you’re looking to fall head over heels with someone who will understand you in every way. If you’re looking to feel like you’re the only person who exists. I know someone.
I know someone who looks at you like you’re the only person in this world that could save them from loneliness. I know someone who’s thought about you late at night, wondering if you’ve felt the same way. I know someone who loves you, really loves you.
If you’re looking for someone to make you…
Did you know that there are a lot of people out there who don’t use lube? It might be because there’s a stigma that for some reason using lube means that you’re not able to get your partner turned on enough. Well, I’m here to tell you my friend that it’s simply not true. You can improve a lot of things in the boudoir with just a small squeeze from that little lube tube.
One: A Sexy Massage
After a long hard week, wouldn’t it be nice to feel your partner’s fingers glide down your back and neck, releasing…
Your body doesn’t and shouldn’t define your dating experiences … even if you think it does
“You know for a bigger girl, you’re quite pretty.”
I had to have heard that wrong. My heart that was comfortably sitting in my chest had plummeted into my stomach. I had just met this guy and was now stuck in a conversation that I was trying to figure out how to get out of. He continued to then discuss how great I am going to be in bed and finished the sentence by saying “that’s a compliment.”
Oh! It’s a compliment! Oh my…
It’s a broken heart.
Not the kind of broken that comes from falling in love and then it ending. No. The kind of broken that comes from such self-hatred that it causes nothing but pain and confusion. That kind of heartbreak is one of the hardest to heal. It’s the one that sits with you late at night when the rest of the world is sleeping and makes you believe that you’re not good enough. For anything or anyone.
If it was heartbreak caused by another person you could focus on that. You can say that they’re an asshole. That…
You can find Alex writing about heartbreak, depression or love. Editor at The Creative Cafe. Work with me www.alexandriabrown.ca.